Tuesday, May 3, 2011

long day

having a long day- trying to find a new apt every place i called it said cats accepted but when i called them they only allow 2 cats not 3 whats up with that? the city says u can have 3 cats. I am not willing to give up any of my 3 cats, one is 18 one is 8 and one is 11 yrs old, they are my fur babies. Got a coral catus for moms day freom hubby it should be interesting to watch it grow. 

Monday, May 2, 2011

why do good parents get a knife in the back from their kids

i have so had it with my daughter. For all her life i was there for her, bending over bckward to give to her and help her. Now 35 yrs into it she turns on me & stabs me in the back. she allows her kids to be disrespectful to me and when i tell her we are planning to move she comes out with well we cant help we will be busy. I did not even give a specific date! i  just said sometime before aug. So now i sit trying to figure a way to get all our household goods moved. It is not the first time she has disappointed me. For hubbys birthday she told him (my hubby her stepdad) that she was going to give him a $25 gas card $25 mcdonalds card & a 20 subway card and that for my birthday she was ging to give me $40 to eat out and $20 to go see a movie then when she heard we were helping our son move (Driving him -and he did help a bit with the gas/food) he offered we could stay at his friends house and we could make it a vacation (first one in our 29 1/2 yrs of marriage). SHe said she would watch the animals (3 cats and a bird) (comming up & feeding them ) she insisted taht gas would be no problem but 3 days into our trip she called & had a hissy fit about how long we were going to be gone and dont you understand gas is going to be an issue. She changed her tune on the cards?money saying she would keep it in case we needed it in an emergency situation and that we would need it when we got back HA! As usual she spent it all. luckily we didnt need it to come back and have managed for the resst of the month even though it was tight. She sure didnt hesitate to not be too busy to call me Easter Sunday at 6 am to tell me my granddaughter was sick so could we make up a get well basket of gatoraid ane chicken soup for the kid (but she wouldnt have us stay so we didnt get sick (cough cough yeah sure)..She knows i dont sleep well & usually am awake till at least 3 am and sometimes 530/6 am. Does she even bother to look at the clock heck no then she calls 2 hrs later to say i'm sorry i called so early. She is so ungrateful, what did i ever do to deserve such an ingrate?